The Prostate, The Panic, and The Ugly Truth About Hateful "Alphas"

Let's be blunt. As a polyamorous, heterosexual, Pagan cisgender man who is secure in his sexuality and has had many wonderful bisexual female partners, I stand firmly as an LGBTQ+ Ally. And from that position, I have something to say to the loud, angry men who spend an inordinate amount of time spewing hatred towards gay people and trans folks: this post is for you. And frankly, we don't care if it makes you uncomfortable. Your discomfort pales in comparison to the pain, fear, and violence the LGBTQ+ community endures daily at the hands of people like you. So, take a seat, because we're about to expose some inconvenient truths about your rage.

For too long, your vitriol has been dismissed as simple "prejudice." But what if there's a deeper, far more pathetic reason for your obsessive need to attack anyone who challenges your narrow view of "manliness"? What if your furious homophobia and transphobia are actually a desperate, pathetic attempt to suppress a truth about yourselves that terrifies you?

My theory, building on existing psychological insights, points directly to a crucial, often-ignored part of the male anatomy: the prostate gland.

The Male "G-Spot" and Your Deepest Fear

Yes, men have a "G-spot" that Pagan men both straight and gay have never shied away from – it's your prostate gland. This internal organ, nestled just in front of the rectum, is incredibly sensitive. It's packed with nerve endings and can deliver mind-blowing, full-body orgasms that are often described as profoundly different, even more intense, than those from typical penile stimulation.

And here's the kicker: the most direct and effective way to access this profound pleasure is through the rectal wall. Yes, through the anus. While a less direct stimulation can happen via the perineum (the area between your balls and your butt), the truly intense experiences usually involve internal pressure.

Now, picture this: You, Mr. "Manly Alpha," who prides yourself on your rigid heterosexuality and who spews homophobic slurs like they're going out of style, suddenly encounter this sensation. Maybe it's from an adventurous female partner (as it was for me). Maybe it's an accidental discovery. The pleasure hits you, hard, undeniable, overwhelming. And it's coming from a place you've demonized as "gay."

The Double Whammy: Misogyny and the "Weakness" of Pleasure

This is where your fragility truly cracks. Not only does this intense pleasure from a "gay" associated act threaten your rigid, brittle masculinity, but when it's a woman who unlocks it? That's a catastrophic blow to your twisted ego.

You hateful homophobes are almost always deeply misogynistic, too. You need to control women, diminish them, and assert your dominance. The idea that a woman could bring you to such intense, potentially overwhelming pleasure, especially from an area you consider "dirty" or "gay," makes you feel weak, vulnerable, and utterly out of control. It fundamentally challenges your perceived superiority.

So, your brain, trapped in its pathetic little box of prejudice, has two crises:

     1. "This pleasure is 'gay'!"

     2. "A woman made me feel this vulnerable, intense pleasure! She's controlling my body!"

The cognitive dissonance is unbearable. Your carefully constructed facade of invincibility and rigid heterosexuality shatters.

The Loudest Hatred: A Whimper of Internal Panic

This profound internal panic, this terrifying confrontation with your own repressed desires and the perceived "weakness" of being pleasured by a woman, erupts as the vile homophobia and transphobia we constantly witness. It's not about gay men or trans women; it's about you.

Your aggressive slurs, your violent rhetoric, your obsession with policing others' genders and sexualities – it's all a desperate reaction formation. You're projecting your own internal terror onto the LGBTQ+ community, trying to convince yourselves, and everyone else, that you are anything but what you fear. You cling to hyper-masculinity and misogyny as a flimsy shield against the terrifying possibility that your own bodies might betray your narrow, hateful worldview.

So, the next time you hear a truly hateful homophobe or transphobe ranting, understand this: their rage isn't strength. It's a desperate, pathetic whimper of a man terrified by his own internal landscape. It's the sound of a closet door slamming shut, desperately trying to hide a truth they're too cowardly to face. And ironically, the pleasure they demonize is something they could experience freely, even with a woman, if only they weren't so consumed by their own hateful, self-imposed ignorance.

Let them be uncomfortable. They deserve it.

Moral of the Story:

Bigotry often isn't about the people being targeted; it's a smokescreen for the bigot's own internal struggles, insecurities, and unacknowledged truths. The loudest hatred often comes from the deepest, most insecure corners of the soul.

And for you asshole wannabe apha men? Stick a finger up your ass! It might make you feel better. 🖕😝🖕